He loves, smoking, drinking, games, cars, machines, jokes and flirting. I come first now. I handle everything around the house, she doesn't need to be thinking about dishes or cleaning while she's going through the flu or whatever. Not only that, it seems as if he's always angry or aggravated when I need him. Do you think you can suggest implementing some of those changes without it dissolving into a fight? I did not realize asking someone if they needed anything or just giving a comforting hug was petting. My cough doesnt produce anything other than an exsmokers clean up. explicit permission. Stop selling your soul for sex, money or a sense of security. 2 yrs ago I was in a serious car accident. Who in their crazy mind would love to feel as the second best on someones life; throwing you with nothing but crumbs, and competing for their attention and love. Don't let the ADHD make you feel any worse you need the peace and quiet to recover gently. And no, it s not all about the relationship dynamics and avoiding my wrath, etc. Ya, it sucks being sick but it's a stomach bug. I helped him in his business, to help ease some of the burden he said he was under. But still had to call SO to bring me a pair of shorts because the doctor was afraid my pants wouldn't be able to come off around the knee-high wrappings; SO was impatient on the phone, frustrated and impatient at the clinic, and upset about having their evening ruined after a long day. If I'm expectedto accept him as he is, then he has to also accept that I will no longer give in just to keep peace. All 3 of her children had severe issues, which she blamed on them. How would he manage without me, his Bandaid? If he is in a tank with filtration, you need to change about 20-30% of his water weekly. I have a high pain threshold and never take any days off sick. After I broke my foot, the Orthopedist put me in a non weight bearing cast. If that's something that you can't handle, it's best to call it off. Haha I'm quite relieved to know even a couple who've been together for long have had to get through situations like this. Sometimes it's that they are 'inside themselves' - or inwardly focused as I call it. My mom used to go hands on care for me when I get sick growing up. I would blame him for screwing up mine. Are you 5 years old? Run!!! registered trademarks of Ziff Davis Canada, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without Jason and Maria want something entirely different out of the same marriage. I occasionally get teary about it, my feelings were so hurt. Qualities many w ADDdo not possess. What symptoms first occurred in You know nothing about my medication, my doctors information, my diagnoses. tl;dr - My wife doesn't care that I am unwell and I have no idea how to approach her about this behavior. So I don't ask for anything beyond desperate needs. I asked him why he never, ever revealed that to me..no answer. In the first instance, you get his buy in. And for this, I am truly, deeply sorry. I am a Marvel hero, as you have said. If you are in the full He love(s) the one he is with..as in.."for the moment, I love this thing I am interacting with, After the interaction is over, I will not think about it or maintain it or make a plan for it in the future. I am, however, hesitant, super hesitant, to engage when 90 percent of what comes out of his mouth is a lie. Attend time is simply time that you both set aside on your schedule to pay attention to each other in a way that shows you care. I will not call for a man when I am sick. I mean, youre a grown man still complaining about a months-old twisted ankle so I wonder if youre exhausting to deal with when you dont feel well. We havent heard from you in a while, and Im hoping you are ok. A male. Its a cultural thing as a whole. Last night I had throbbing pains in the side of my head that were scary (I have a history of TIAs, apparently), so I had a right to be worried. If it's me first? Best of Luck to you all and I look forward to reading your story. When someone is sick or injured.I'm first respondentjust so you know? Privacy If my husband had a stomach bug that lasted a few days and he didnt go to the doctor I would probably be like your wife too. I understand how having a stomach bug can be physically draining-hard to eat,sleep, ect But you are a 24 year old grown up, if youre sick, ask to go to doctor or if she can take you. And here is my confession, for I fall short of a Marvel superhero. And we would just keep saying hurtful things to each other. Yes it was my plan all along to get sick in order to make you sick and miserable! The women (and a few men) who are married to someone with untreated or under treated ADHD all suffer from the something similar..A lack of love. I have been happily married for 22 yrs. And that look on his face is what I will always remember. And my mother ( the other one with ADHD who I got it from? He thinks about "whatever", in the moment he's in. THAT, was fear. Yes mothers do this for children, because children need help with these tasks, but you are not a child. I've had to take a de-greaser and scrub them all down to get the old slimy grease off of all of them. Sign #12: He Doesnt Pay For Anything. My husband says he wants us to "get back together", and he now wants to be the husband he should be. Submitted by The Bride (not verified) on Mon, 07/13/2020 - 04:33. Do I wish that were not the case? Someone who can be inspirational, and help me or others see their own potential by being inspiring in themselves. Reach out in an inviting way. Being intrusive and obnoxious so my partner would pay attention to me. Don't misunderstand me - I get it. Everyone, strangers and those that love and tolerate him see an issue. I wasn't even allowed to adjust my own pillows. Love, to me, is caring about the welfare of something and wanting to put in the effort and time and attention for it to grow and survive. I don't believe the behavior is intentional in my case. If you want to connect with your partner the 'trick' is two fold. Which is what gets me to why I'm posting this response: "I have to be extremely obvious in my disconnection attempts to get notice LOL - like a very deliberate snub. She says take medicine or go to doctor. Before this point I even got out books on herbal medicine to treat dangerous infections, spent $70 plus buying all the herbs and tinctures and mixed them up for him to take. If your wife grew up like I did you are never going to be happy with the level of care she gives you, because its completely foreign to her. I truly don't think he SEES the damage that all of this caused me AND him, mainly because he still doesn't think his ADHD has that much affect on our daily lives. He was the only child in that family that didn't become chemically addicted to something, which he prides himself immensely for, instead of being "grateful" that he didn't become that. For the first 23 years, I was weak, scared, blamed myself, cried til my face peeled from the salt, in some cases literally ran away to avoid his outburst toward himself, his violence to hiimself, his negativity. Sign #10: Not protective over you at all. Stubbornness, not listening, victim mentality, and lack of awareness of life in general that gets overwhelming for me, which makes being in a "marriage" even more challenging. Dont gauge this for the rest of your marriage. He reluctantly came up to the accident sight. Or pulled a muscle in my back. I paid for every cent at that point and insurance for me/him. He will leave and stay gone 2 hrs and not even so much ask if I need anything at all. I'm tired . He has No responsibility for any of his behavior or actions. And yes, I did remind remind remind suggest suggest suggest in the nicest possible way until I gave up. I had a migraine headache and vomiting a few years ago and said I wanted to go to the ER and he said , "If you had a migraine your eyes would be sensitive to light." I was too kind, wanting to help TOO much, and didn't set boundaries. Erlichia can kill people, it is in the same class as Rocky Mountain Spotted fever. Wanting to CONNECT? #1. In all these posts and stories, especially in many of the long term marriages, there seems to be a common theme. She offered to take a day off to take care of me but I was already feeling better so I just said no. There was no safe way to drive the manual transmission with one foot, so I had to use the broken foot on the clutch. He didn't. I guess its just a character flaw of his! And what Ive learned is, thats exactly why Im with you. You kind of know when my appointments are, but ask me all the time, even though they are in your calendar. He sees the painted parts and not the unpainted parts, because to him this is a lot of work. It wasnt until recently that I found my voice. Friday afternoon he gets home from work and goes to ", Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 14:29, Disconnection issues for those with ADHD come from a multitude of places. Then I proceded to ( vomit all day and my my took me in to see the Doctor who told her that I had a rare case of the Mumps that went into my intestines ) and gave her some pills? I guess he didn't want to try facebook or instagram messaging because then she'd see what he's up to. When she start ignoring you and letting you do what you want, then you have a problem. And.as I have confirmed my father ( the Narc ) did this as well? No one has ever taken a day off when I was sick . Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Fri, 04/14/2017 - 10:15, Basic human feelings that have to be forced, coerced or always one-sided is deflating and fatiguing. After 22 years of marriage , I've learned this the hard way and am done once our oldest has graduated high school. When I'm sick no one asks what I I was still in therapy and my therapist, who is a mutual friend and took me on pro-bono, helped me so much to rebuild my esteem, stop being co-dependent. When you find out your spouse is seriously ill, its natural to feel overwhelmed by fear and confusion. Submitted by Exhaustedlady87 (not verified) on Fri, 11/15/2019 - 16:54. You are very caring and shower her with affection and loveYou respect her parents and treat them wellYou respect your wife and support her to achieve her dreamsYour presence makes her feel happy (because she loves you so much)She considers you as her soulmateShe feels safe and secure to be with youShe trust you so muchMore items We already talked and we good now. Acknowledge the wrongdoing. Describe what you did, and why it was wrong.Promise not to do it again. Mean it.Ask for forgiveness. I had to think this morning, while again looking at the impossible job staring me in the face here at the house. So my son went to school all day long and aftercare in pain and fatigue, came home and suffered with massive headaches and widespread pain,which got worse at first with treatment. Set up a way for it to not be inconsistent. If dinner isn't made, I warm up a bowl of soup for ME and eat on my patio and enjoy the calm I have as opposed to the misery I can have when he is around with his moodiness and negativity. Im the sick one, the one who is lucky to stay out of the hospital for more than three months at a time. The garage is large, and I can barely walk through it from all his tools and projects all over the floor. It was miserable. WHAT? Jan 14, 2018. After calling him 3 times with no answer, I finally called his friend's phone and explained my situation. Which to that, I feel he used me to have someone to marry and to love HIM, but he knew he wasn't going to return that. And vice versa. They ruin too many peoples lives. I had pre-marital sex before my first marriage and was pregnant when I got married. I would have been down on my kneesbegging for forgiveness.for making me go swimming with 104 degree temperatureand not believing me or showing the concern when I was told that I was sick and didn't feel well? But know that people can take a while to be retrained to react differently. Its me, me and my illness, that dominate our life. Some people are very loving and caring, others are pretty avoidant. Always. His mother died in a plane crash, this would finish him off if I left, etc. Sometimes that takes the form of cuddling or doing something together like a walk/talk. Yes, I licked the back of every airplane seat to make sure I picked up some kind of virus! If she chooses to start an argument or to not be sympathetic, you can suggest counseling together. You know where I keep my emergency information, when to call 911. My husband continued to be gone 4-5 nights a week with activities and my kids were completely out of control during this time, so I was exhausted and dealing with severe behavior issues each evening. We parted ways. Interesting how blame is still the "go to" tool in their arsenal of engagement. H's definition of love is thisafter I asked him "What does love mean to you?" Would she normally kiss you before going to work? I do believe he loves me. Getting mad or saying nasty things when someone is sick or injured suggests the same disorders. SO has said they're sorry this happened, and it's probably worse for me - so they know they don't know how I feel. We are at retirement age, but will never GET to retire. That is when he finally paid attention to me and accepted that I was sick. How does someone even DO that? It wont solvefor the dishonesty (and just found a new credit card). First of all, you have to stop with the drama of begging him to come take care of you! Or begging him to drive you home. I can understand mentionin SO did get angry at the slow healing process, and said this had better by done with by their birthday! WebA major medical diagnosis can lead to doctor-recommended changes in your spouses diet, physical activity level, medication routine and need for rest. My SO had an in depth ADHD assessment earlier this year (one we had to pay for out of pocket and it wasn't your run of the mill assessment, it took an entire morning of tests and interviews), and empathy was one of the things they assessed as they considered it part of the disorder. And all my dh could do was go on and on about how much the window was going to cost to replace it, and it was all my fault. All part of marriage, I guess. I know the empathy is in there, but it's overridden by the rest of their experience and the onslaught of perception they constantly have to sort through. I explained that there was no difference really with him coming to bed at 3AM and I was already sleeping alone for YEARS. Etc. The latter makes you miserable (as you know) and relies upon him to 'think of you' at a time when he's otherwise distractedif that makes sense. He hates the snow. That is when a person is the I know this may sound "corny", lol, but I don't think I'm too off base with this. So if you want to connect, you will likely be the one to have to bring it up. Narcissistic SpouseDoesnt Care whether You Live Or Die. Do you notice periods of lucidity between the bouts of rage? I drove myself to the urgent care centre, with the automatic transmission this time, and got it all wrapped up after the X-rays confirmed the break. I know when I'm sick, I freak out about being a burden & not pulling my weight. If you do decide children are for you, there are going to be times when you have the barf pooos and you still have to entertain kids, make meals, and continue parenting while I'll. I feel like with every post, I am reading about myself. When he is at home, he behavior is that of a spoiled 3yr old who has tantrums. I was a great person to be around but the lies hurt and changed me. Thats I can not tell you how much I can relate to you and everyone else that has posted. Not flu/COVID/serious illness. This is daunting to say the least. Calmly confess and take responsibility for the times in your marriage when you have been dishonest. I always try hard to take care of everybody when they are sick, including my spouse. It is obvious that ADD people rarely change for any measurable amount of time. The codependent wife moved back without his help and then he said he wasn't going back to therapy after one session. We also had an outdoor wedding to attend two weeks after I broke my foot . But that's not what will happen if you marry a man with kids, and he'll pull the "but my kids" trump card on you all the time in BS waysto justify his own selfishness. Thankfully, our two children were happy to help me. You know all the important things. In the letter I explained that he needed to get help and I was running to save myself. When he had resistant sinus infections that were painful I let him sleep and rest, I forced him to take his antibiotics that were still in the cupboard when they came back and he seemed to be dying on the couch, I forced him to go back to the ENT and demanded he book surgery to get his nose cleaned out, as he had resistant sinus infections that were really dangerous- Klebsiella and Serratia marceneses. Oops! I agree. Nothing sexual ever happened but after 2 years of him love bombing me, calling me hot, beautiful, his soul mate, his twin, etc, he would discard me when I got too needy and hoover me back in when he needed an emotional pick me up. She is mad about something(unless you have sick kids in which case she is just holding it together). I don't understand why many on this forum think ADHD is the cause of cruelty and worse. I grew up in a house where you were basically quarantined when sick. NOTHING HELPED. My husband would blame me for ruining his life. It dramatically affected my relationship for the worse. (maybe?). It CHANGED ME, and I'm not who I used to be. WebPsychology Today: Health, Help, Happiness + Find a Therapist Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Thu, 04/13/2017 - 17:29. Im the one who is on disability and hasnt worked in two years. Maybe I'm just expecting a bit too much. Germaphobe type thing? Don't walk around hurt from a Global sickness presently called, "entitlement". Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I was sick this past weekend into Monday with Bronchitis and my husband, who doesn't work during the week, left me alone on Monday when I called off from work. That's why the 'pursuit' or 'in your face' strategy that you are using fails. Do you have kids that were sick too? I did just that, and was starting to fall asleep almost at work I so exhausted, my company was worried about me, and I told my husband I wanted to go on medical leave, that I couldn't do it anymore. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Boy did we cry. But somehow he feels as my fault that I'm this way as if I can do something to change the circumstances. I m not saying it s right, but I am not putting in the effort for someone who lies to my face about everything. Submitted by Punkin on Fri, 03/10/2017 - 07:12. And I have failed you, but in finding your voice you have helped me find mine and now I see. No wonder folks with ADHD have built up some walls. This marriage has changed me, first for the worst and now finally for the better. Sign #11: Doesnt talk about the future. No expression. Ask for forgiveness. He just gets on his computer. Uggh. No words. That's just great! I am married for 10 years late in life now 60 ..and moved to Spain after 18 months I took the real flu I was in bed for 6 weeks with only sips of w But the AD/HD is so strong, it overrides that. I was extremely attentive and constantly checking in on him, mind you this is while Im taking care of the kids and the household: then just a few days ago I wasnt feeling good. You also don't have a role model to teach or even show you HOW to connect. You carry on, steady through the storm. I don't like this skeptical, harder person I've become, but I had to for self survival. I agree his kids should come first. I take care of her in sickness and in health.but our kids still come first. He was so sick he couldn't even think well enough to do his homework. Anyway, I got way off track here. When I was3 months pregnant, wetook a trip to Mexico. Anyway..it was really serious and I can't ever remember being that sick before in my life and it was horrible right? Right now I'm back at the house trying to get some stuff in order. And I take. My husband was in complete denial and continued on with his multiple activities, trying to ignore his son suffering. She was diagnosed with a mood disorder and anxiety in 2008. She was in the hospital two days and has a 3 week recovery time frame. The unfinished projects and dreams. Yes, I agree, and am in the same place. If I could boil down the difficulties, it really does come down to lack of love as you described. Even if you have the flu, it's up to your partner how close they want to get to you. His sister died from alcoholism about 8 years ago, she was only 51. Unfortunately, many divorced dads want to be their kids friends and a DisneyDad to them rather than a father. We have elementary aged children and he works at a demanding job. When my wife gets sick I take over and watch our daughters, 4 and 1, so she can sleep. Its good to have a healthy balance. I think the non spouse has to be less of a giver and move to the attitude of-I'm in this life for myself just like you demonstratedaily that are in it for yourself. And of course, my fave from Walter Mitty movie "Beautiful things don't ask for attention. I am still me; I am unchanged to you. Submitted by notgonnalosemyself (not verified) on Thu, 04/13/2017 - 16:22. Submitted by tiredmomma1 on Fri, 04/07/2017 - 12:12. To have someone who would look at me when I talked to him (at least sometimes), and not look away, or in another direction, or not pay attention at all, and wouldn't immediately take an opposing view of my opinions, or discount them altogether. That's not even in my nature.". There's definitely a disconnect. A place for sharing the for-better and for-worse of marriage. He will leave and stay gone 2 hrs and not even so much ask if I need anything at all. In all honesty if a man has intentions (honest) true love intentions knowing that you will love his kids, as you love him then you would be first. Ihave neglected you. Lately he finds more reasons than not to leave the house to help someone else anybody else. We're still at the beginning of our diagnostic and therapeutic journey. He's afraid someone is going to see that he couldn't 'do this, and it will make him look bad to someone "out there". When I got to the ER and they did a CAT scan, they said it was about to burst. And, of course, there is their sense that others (including you) are out to get them. Like so many of the other posts, writing this post and sharing my feelings is very therapeutic. I can see how the advocated plan/tricks might work to create connection. Not doing anything about it will make you resentful. Some people have zero bedside manner. 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